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Jill Grunewald's avatar

Vanessa, you are a rock star! Your thoughts and writing always lift my spirits as you speak from the heart with such truth and passion, as well as dedication to our people and how to fix the world. I always look forward to your writings. You are my inspiration! Thank you! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป ืชื•ื“ื” ืจื‘ื”!

Armand Helberg's avatar

Excellent paper, what you recommend is what differentiate jewish identity from Islam or communism, which also makes it more interesting and challenging. This is the real meaning of diversity.

Martin Sinkoff's avatar

I agree with everything Jill Grunewald writes below. No other comment needed. Thanks Vanessa!

"Vanessa, you are a rock star! Your thoughts and writing always lift my spirits as you speak from the heart with such truth and passion, as well as dedication to our people and how to fix the world. I always look forward to your writings. You are my inspiration! Thank you! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป ืชื•ื“ื” ืจื‘ื”!"

Dan's avatar
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The word you need here is Empathy: Seeing and indeed feeling the other person-interlocutorโ€™s view, whilst holding oneโ€™s own, that is to say without necessarily giving oneโ€™s own position up. This discussion may be at first through a conversation about ideas, then as closeness grows the bond becomes more felt and emotional. Empathy is not to be confused with sympathy which is simply โ€˜shared feelingโ€™. If sympathy comes first without the critical faculties, such emotion can quickly be misinterpreted as betrayal and indeed anger, as positions diverge. Start with Empathy, to avoid disappointments.

Barry Lederman, โ€œnormieโ€'s avatar

What is missing is leadership to create the unity you very clearly wrote about.